Time flies

I have kept this blog in the back of my mind and always said I should post, but just haven't found the time. Work is slow so why not now!

There is so much that has happened since my last post. My little guy is turning 4 this year and next year the adoption takes on its own new role and I have come to terms with it. I still get to see him which is the most important part. No one ever tells you about all the transitions that you will go through during an adoption or all the years following. They also don't tell you all the aspects of your life that it touches and how everything is all tied in together somehow.

Over the past four years he has grown in to this amazing little man who has parts of me in him! He still knows how to melt my heart! I hope one day he sees how lucky he is to have so many people in his life that love and care about him.

My other little man is turning 8 and boy does that come with an attitude from somewhere. It seems every day one more baby tooth is coming out and he is my toothless grinning machine. I am thankful to have such a wonderful son to have to love. He tells me that he loves me more than I will ever know. He has no idea how much I love him in return and one day when he has his own family he will see. My life was forever changed because of him and I wouldn't trade it for a min. He also is at a point where he will ask a question and when I respond with the answer he informs me I am incorrect and gives me his answer which really isn't the answer. I ask him why then does he bother asking the question in the first place if he knew the answer already.....no response!

I have met the man of my dreams and I am learning to live one day at a time and not rush a life time into a short time. He fills my son and my life with lots of happiness. What the future holds is unknown and I am okay with that for the first time in my life.

I am down to 12 classes left in school then I can finally become a social worker. What the heck was I thinking when I lived life backwards? School with out children would have been so much easier, but this puts the pressure on and keeps me on my toes!

I hope all of you fellow bloggers are doing well!

Almost visit time

In just a few short weeks I get to go visit Jadon. He will be celebrating his 3rd birthday. Where three years have gone I will never know. I look forward to the visit because over the years life has become busy and communication has slowed on both ends. Not that we mean to not communicate its just life takes over and before we know it a month has gone by and we are left still saying we will email or call the other person. I look forward to him calling me his Julie and telling me he loves me and me being able to say to him just how much I love him. He always has so many new things he knows how to do and I try and take them all in during our visit. He shares his belly giggle. Now he is to the point where he ask questions and can talk to me with out me trying to figure out what he means or wants and it's wonderful.

A Prayer for "S"

Lately I have been working with S to find parents for her little girl. Well, yesterday she went into labor and had her little girl. I am asking for prayers so that God will be with her in this difficult time as she hands her baby over to the new parents. Thank you for your prayers.

Huge Summer

Summer time is time for a kid to be a kid. Before you know it though school is starting and you are looking at a child who is now at least 4 inches taller and talking about legos and Star Wars and games he is playing on the WII. However, when you look back on the Summer your child seemed to develop in to this person while you were left standing still. This summer was huge in our house. For one Jacob learned how to swim in June with out flotaion devices. Which pulls from the heart string. Okay one major thing okay I can deal with that. But then in July he told me he didn't want his traning wheels on his bike anymore as he could do it like the other kids. WOW! Then a week before school starts back up he comes to me because he learned something new and is excited to show you. I stand and watch as he unties his shoe and ties it back. I hold back tears and tell him how proud I am of him. He just beams with enthusiasm. So in one summer my baby was turned from a little man to I can do it I am a big boy sorry mom. If only I could shrink him down to a baby again and start all over!

Most amazing sound!

When I tlak to A on the phone I can always here Jadon in the back ground gibbering and he always trys to talk on the phone and the most I have ever gotten was Hi or fish! But still they are great words when you haven't heard him talk. Well the other day we were talking about his birthday and she put him on the phone and the Hi this time was super clear. Then......He said luv you! My heart melted! I couldn't believe that he was telling me that he loved me! They were the greatest words ever and so heart felt. So when I see him Saturday I am hoping to teach him my name! One day he will talk up a storm but for now I can hear it over and over and my heart will still feel like its the first time.

Tomorrow is his 2nd Birthday

It's hard to believe that two years ago today I was in labor, and that tomorrow I would give birth to an amazing little boy! Last year I was a little tough for me, so this year I am taking the day off and staying home. I have all day to get what ever it is out of my system. Because Saturday morning I am meeting him for breakfast! Which I am on cloud nine about. I haven't seen him since April and in his pictures he has changed so much. We are going to the zoo for his birthday which I hear he is in to animals so this should be a great trip! My friend S has offered her shoulder so that if I need one it will be available. She is so great! I got to talk to A today to get final details about the trip and also about how she is with her little man growing up. I am glad I can talk to her when I need to about this little guy!

Do yolu ever wake up and wish you hadn't

When you wake up in the morning do you ever find your self wishing that you could close your eyes to not wake up. You know that everyday you do the same thing and nothing changes, but you keep going not ever knowing why. I know God has a plan for all of us but sometimes its easy to loose sight of it. Sometimes life just keeps kicking you no matter how many times you think you will get ahead life has this funny way of kicking you 10 feet back. I see other people who are so happy and I have no idea what I am doing so wrong that I can't seem to get that way my self. I am beginning to believe happiness is for other people. I have realized that people are not always what them seem at first and I for one am not a good judge of Charter. I realize I will have my heart broken over and over, and I will break some ones heart not meaning to. I also know I am just burnt out. I am sick of trying to be responsible all the time. I but yet it always seems to get in the way of the things that matter in life. I know I will work through this as I always do, but when will it ever get to the point ten steps back doesn't feel so bad?