Lately I have been reflecting on the relationships in my life and I think I would be better off with out half of them. So I am ending them slowly but surely.
Take my relationship with H friends till the end or in this case until she finds some one else to give her what ever she wants. It was a relationship of what could I do for H but if the shoe were on my foot she always had a reason she couldn't help.
My relationship with K wasn't much different and she just told me she is moving in two weeks. Since I no longer drink our friendship was put to the test. Sorry I just don't see a need to drink to hang out with people.
Now my family is going to be the hardest string of all to cut. Hint they are family. I have decided for my son that one last visit home would be good. I would like to have pictures with my grandma and him, but other than that they can all kiss my rear. I don't need someone to tell me what kind of parent I am being or how I should be nice to my mother, or why and I raising my child this way when I wasn't raised that way. Oh yeah and when I fall on my face don't turn to them for help, but if I am soaring they are there to take all the credit for helping me get there, when really they had nothing to do with it.
I am also giving my orthodontist the boot. Three years and counting and he still has no idea when my braces will come off. See yeah I will go to some one who knows what they are really doing and aren't just money hungry.
Oh yeah and I am looking for a new job since my boss thinks its okay to judge my character and get away with it. Sorry I have had people judging me all of my life and I will be darned in my boss gets away with it.
My J dad. well I tried to be nice to him and guess what the street goes both ways and since he can't be man enough to stick to anything he says sorry I also have no time for him either.
I need healthy loving relationships and I have that with a few people in my life and I would rather have that with a few people instead of crappy relationships with a lot of people.
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((((Julie))))
I get the re-evaluation of family relationships...(I am currently under the same reconstruction with a few extended family members.)
I'm reading a good book, I'll pass it on when I'm done. It's by Dr. Laura. (Eye roll I know!) It's called "Bad Childhood, Good Life."
I wish you success in your re-prioritizing. But you KNOW that your son(s) will be the ones that benifit from the changes in relationship.
Love you!
Re-evaulating relationships can stink but can be so necessary. Thankfully I haven't had to do that in a while.
BTW, tag! You're it! :)
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